


Welcome to the adventures of Granny B. Two years ago I sort of took a detour off the highway of life, just needed some time to heal and evaluate where my life will go next. My husband and I fought a good battle against Alzheimer's for over eight years. Eight years knowing that there would be no happy ending to our story.
A few weeks ago I was driving down Eastern Avenue near the airport in Las Vegas, playing a good ole Bob Segar tune on my sound system, when I realized that tears were rolling down my face. Not a storm but something like what the Navajo call female rain, soft and gentle, slipping from a crack in my heart. I pulled over into a parking lot and just sat for a few minutes. Maybe it's time for me to start living again. I miss having male companionship. It would be nice to have someone to share the morning paper and coffee or maybe a glass of wine as the day ends.
OK, lets put everything on the table. I am 69, my hair is silver, in the past two years I have packed on a few more pounds than I need so I would describe myself as big and bountiful. I am close to my family with two grandchildren; have strong political opinions, like being a Democratic with a capital "L", prefer to wear berkies and crocs with my jeans, have a funky" tricked out" car, known as the "BOGIEBX" (think boogie box) that I have taken to car shows and meet ups in the past and I just don't consider myself a typical little ole lady.
So I decieded that this is the internet age and why not try online dating! I enrolled in two different senior dating services which I shall call "hookup" and "silver match". The men have started arriving on my computer daily! Wow, every morning there are new matches. I have Cinderella dreams with my coffee. Tall men, short men, bald men, lots of hair men, fat men, slim men: is my special soul mate out there?? What are the rules for senior sex?
Here I am, as the great songwriter Willie Nelson says: "On the road again, I just can't wait to get on the road again". Stay tuned.
Can't wait to hear about your search for the near extinct "sexy senior panties". Thank you for giving me something entertaining to read about Real Life:o)...signed your intrigued 33 yr old friend!
ReplyDeleteCan I be Beloved Daughter in law (BDIL) in stead of BWDL ( what's the W for?) I love what you've written so far. I posted your link in the bulletin on section of my myspace account. Keep on boogie-ing!
ReplyDeleteKim
Thank you for posting a comment on my blog and alerting me to yours. I'll relish your adventures and welcome your thoughts, on your blog and mine.
ReplyDeleteAs you know if you read my blog, I lost my beloved husband to cancer in August 2008. I'm making my way back to life, too. He gave me a message (I know you'll understand that -- we do get messages) just last week: "I don't want to be the reason you're not living your life." That was a powerful message.
Joan Price
Author of Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty (http://www.joanprice.com/BetterThanExpected.htm)
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